THANK YOU, SENIORS!

matty gilroy, ncaa champion, hobey baker winner

I am speechless.

This BU hockey season was nothing short of amazing.  I think I’ve said that time and time again.  In person, on line, in email, on the phone, on Twitter, on Facebook, you get the idea.

I had not wanted to put all my hope in this team and get crushed.  Or worse, jinx them.  Every year, my favorite team to win it all just can’t get it done in the playoffs.  I did not want to do that to BU.  Even though, of course, they were my favorite to win.  (My second favorite was Miami (OH) and we know how it turned out for them the past few years…)

It was a spectacular game last night.  I watched it in a bar in CT as we waited for Instrument to take the stage.  The best part was that Jamie made it back from Ohio in time for the game and we watched it together.  It would not have been the same without him. We were obnoxious - for that, I’m not proud - but withholding the emotion was just impossible.  We treated the bar to a few rounds of “The Song”, some “Hey, Baby” and, after finding out Jack Parker has won more NCAA tourney games than Jerry York, we treated the bar to a rousing rendition of “Jerry York is a horse’s ass”.

I could link to a dozen stories about the game, and how amazing this team was.  It really was the senior leadership that made this team what they were.  There is no doubt about that.  Out of the seniors, Matt Gilroy was a favorite of mine.  How could you not like a guy who wears 97 to honor his little brother? A guy who pushed for bracelets to honor their number one Starr of the game? (Ms. Starr was a huge benefactor of BU Hockey and a member of the board of the BU Friends of Hockey and she lost her battle with thyroid cancer.)  A guy who passed up in the neighborhood of TWENTY pro offers, who played without a scholarship his senior year, in order to play with his younger brother, Kevin?

I love Matty and I’m going to miss him.  A lot.  I think this article says it all and then some: Matt Gilroy joins an elite group as the fifth player to win both the Hobey Baker award and the NCAA Championship.

This was a magical year, and losing this senior class is going to hurt.  But I can’t thank them enough for letting the fans follow them as they delivered on Petey’s Promise.

Thank you Matty, Smoke, J-Lo, Higgy, Yip, Johnny, and thank you to the rest of the BU Hockey program - including the Dog Pound, Hot Dog & Jesus, and Shatty’s Thing - you made this season incredible and I’m so fortunate I got to be a part of it…

I’m a Mac and a PC and I love Lotus Notes.

PONY! :: ben and jerry’s, waterbury, vt :: april 4, 2009

Last weekend, while I was in Vermont (April 3-5), I apparently set teh interweb on fire with my excitement over Lotus Notes and eProductivity.

Eric Mack blogged about our meeting at the GTD Summit and how excited I was about eProductivity (his software). I WAS wicked excited. So excited, in fact, that if it meant I’d have to begin using Lotus Notes, I’d be ALL OVER THAT. (It’s never too late to switch to Lotus Notes.)

Ed Brill, over at IBM, not only caught Eric’s entry, he picked up on my tweets.  (Eric Mack has made a Notes convert…)

Then, Eric posted an audio interview we did at the Summit. (Listen to how I help…)

Here’s the backstory:

Like most people who use GTD, I’m all about finding a system that helps me reduce drag.  While I do love a good paper based system, it’s not always practical.  I’m on a PC at work all day and, as such, I spend too much time in Outlook.  I’ve never really been comfortable with Outlook - it’s just never done it for me.  It doesn’t matter how much I mess around with the settings, how much I hack the crap out of it, I just can’t get Outlook to work for *me*.  So, I was looking for something new. 

Enter Eric Mack and eProductivity. 

I’ve been reading Eric’s blogs on and off since I got into GTD two years ago.  I had seen the mentions of eProductivity and was intrigued by it.  When I got the chance to see the demo at the GTD Summit, I was beyond excited.  What I was seeing - in just the demo - blew my mind.  It looked like it was built for me.  Everything I was looking for in GTD software was right there.  Eric and I chatted a little bit, I drooled a whole lot, and it came up that I had no idea that Lotus Notes was still around.  I’m not stupid… I know David Allen uses Lotus Notes, but I had it in my head that it was stagnant software.  Like it hadn’t been updated in a zillion years. I also had it in my head that even if it was still out there and being updated, it was only on an enterprise level.  Not a single user level.  Definitely not available on a Mac in any way, shape or form.  Eric set me straight and I left our meeting excited to get up to my hotel room and download Lotus Notes for the Mac.  It was HARD to get to the download area - I had to create a log in! Dude, that’s too much work! - and then, the entire layout was just unfriendly. It was really a battle.  I was not happy at all.  Not quite frustrated, but unhappy. Very unhappy.  Eric and I had a quick chat in the elevator about it the next morning, which led to the recorded interview. (BTW - so happy I don’t sound like an ass!)

When I got home from the Summit, I tried to install Lotus Notes on the Mac.  It installed, wouldn’t do email, and then crashed and burned. Now, when I try to start the software, it tells me that it can’t find the user ID and it can’t find the server.  I don’t know what’s wrong.  Googling isn’t getting me the answers I need, and the IBM tech note assumes you’re in a business environment - not on a couch, in your jammies, with a MacBook on your lap.  I’m a little over using Notes on the Mac.  I just can’t get it to behave and I’m seriously tired of fighting with it. I never did get eProductivity installed on there, either. I had been using OmniFocus - with great results - but it grew old very quickly and I haven’t opened it, or updated my lists, in forever. I have it on both the Mac and the iPhone - the ability to sync had been huge - and now I don’t use either version.  Stale. Stale. Stale.  I’m a bad GTD’er.

On the work side, I had a crappy PC which was running Outlook 2000. It wouldn’t save a password.  Word wouldn’t do mail merges.  Quickbooks kept crashing.  I don’t know why I thought trying to install Notes on that screaming disaster was a good idea.  There was much more frustration.  MUCH more frustration. And angry tweets. Very angry tweets.  I must say that getting help from Eric Mack himself - on my birthday, no less - certainly made it tolerable.

I ended up getting a new computer earlier than planned. As soon as I got it up and running, I downloaded fresh copies of both Lotus Notes and eProductivity.  They installed like a charm and I haven’t looked back.  Every day, I open Notes and view my lists in eProductivity with a huge smile on my face.  (Yes, I AM a dork.  Thanks for asking.)  I work for two people I call Crazy Makers and just knowing that I have a trusted system where I can find everything seriously makes my day.  I NEVER felt that comfortable with Outlook. It’s much easier to deal with their constant insanity now!! I really love how easy it is to create projects, subprojects, link documents and write notes in the system while I’m on the phone with them, trying desperately to keep up as they jump from topic to topic.

I was trying to explain to a friend why coughing up almost $500 on this software combination was a good idea and I just couldn’t do it.  For me, the combo of Lotus Notes and eProductivity on a PC is like using a Mac: It. Just. Works. (Not really a compelling argument when you’re talking to the controller of the checkbook, but I seriously don’t know how else to explain it.  It’s like saying GTD is life changing.  Unless you’ve experienced it yourself, ya’ll think we’re just a bunch of uber-organized, productivity-obsessed whackjobs.)

At this point, I don’t care if I need to get a paper route to pay for it.  Lotus Notes and eProductivity will NOT be coming off the work PC once the trials are over.  I will fight to the death to keep the software. 

And, despite all my issues, I’m still not ready to give up on the Mac… but I don’t know what my next step is.  I need a Lotus Notes / Mac Guru and I’m willing to pay for help!  I want to experience that mind like water state at home, too.  If you are ready, willing and able, please email me:  tamara [dot] nelson [at] gmail [dot] com - or find me on Twitter (I’m uconntam).

Now, it’s off to bed. Tomorrow, I’m heading into Connecticut (again) to hang out with my favorite little brother, and see my friends’ band, Instrument (again).  I’m seriously starting to think I need a project called: “Move Back to Connecticut.”  Or maybe I need a project called: “Stop being the band’s official photographer, you dolt.  You live three hours away!”  (Shameless plug: Instrument on MySpace)  When I return, I promise to share the amazing adventures of PONY!

ETA: Eric Mack has picked this entry up! View Eric’s commentary.

ETA X 2: Dear Universe, I don’t know what you did, but THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!! Lotus Notes is working on the Mac side!!!!!!!!!  eProductivity, here I come!

Eh…

ben and derek :: hot topic, westfarms mall, ct :: march 27, 2009

Well… I had this entry planned where I was going to talk about my awesome weekend in Vermont. 

I had another entry planned where I was going to geek out about eProductivity and Lotus Notes… and how cool it was to be blogged about twice by Eric Mack and once by Ed Brill (of IBM).

Instead, I came home from Vermont to an unhappy husband. There was a family emergency and he needed to take off to Ohio to be with them.

I’m going to be quiet for a bit while I deal with the enormity of this new batch of bad news. When I come back, there will be much geekery, some PONY! and a couple of good stories. 

But for now, I’m just going to hide and hope things get better…

 

What to say?

with my favorite lead singer and bass player :: arlene’s grocery, nyc :: march 29, 2009

Caught a ride with the boys of the band to their show at Arlene’s Grocery.  The trip down to NYC and back was good fun.  The band was a little rough, but I’ll chalk that up to being ex-haust-ted.  Plus, D was sick as a dog, so he was in the ick up to his eyeballs.  (Poor D!  Get well soon!)

I’m not a big fan of bars and I’m not a big fan of drunk people as a whole… I have seen this played out time and time again and the lesson learned is:  be wary of drunk people.  They tend to share too much and they tend to share the truth.  As a result, I heard things I definitely would have been better not knowing.  From sources that surprised me.  From sources who hurt me with their blunt assessments. Maybe they were right.  Maybe they were wrong. 

While my normal reflex is to lash out at those who hurt me, I wasn’t able to do it this time.  I just swallowed the shock and embarassment and went on with my night. I didn’t know what else to do. I’ve kind of gotten past the hurtful comments.  I’m not going to forget them anytime soon, but I will forgive the source for saying it. I know every word was meant, but I just can’t get mad at their censor for taking the night off. I’m trying to be the bigger person here.

At any rate, things changed on Sunday night in several relationships.  For better or for worse, things aren’t going to be the same again.

I didn’t get back to NH until Monday night - we barely got back to CT in time for me to help unpack and get to work on time. 40 hours without sleep.  Thank god for the insomnia—I would have been dead without it.  You would think that I’ve grown out of that phase, but not so much.  I’ll party as long as my body can take it.  If I need to crash on the way home, I crash.  That’s what hotels are for.  I’ve actually grown to like traveling to see them play and push my photography skills to the limit.  No matter how exhausting it is. I’m not planning on quitting any time soon.  Matter of fact, I’m seriously thinking about traveling to Delaware in May.  It’s the weekend of my Mom’s birthday so it’s a good time to get the heck out of dodge and not host my usual pity party.

I’m not going to lie - I still struggle with taking pictures. My main camera is an Olympus Stylus and my current “back up” is a Nikon D40.  I’m still trying to figure out how the Olympus worked so well at the R.E.M. show because I’m not quite getting that level of success now.  I’d love to dump it and use the NIkon all the time, but I still have a lot to learn about how to use the Nikon in these sorts of situations.  The Olympus is so point-and-shoot that I’ve just grown to trust that 50% of what comes out of it will be OK. I don’t really like that feeling.  I want to know WHY 50% of them come out OK and see if that helps me push it to 75%.

It’s time to rest up - I’ve got another insane weekend coming up.  This time, I"m heading up to VT with the PONY! crew.  It’s supposed to rain all weekend.  Ergh.  I’m kind of happy about that since I can’t ski.  Maybe it will give me an excuse to focus on learning how to use the NIkon…

 

Catching up…

aaron :: storrs, ct :: march 27, 2009

Wow.  It’s been a while. 

I have a good excuse!  Honest.  It’s called burning the candle at both ends with a sleep over at the hospital.

So, on my actual birthday, Instrument played an acoustic set on UConn’s radio station, WHUS.  I was promised a shout-out by Ben, the lead singer, so I couldn’t wait to hear the show. Seriously excited.  The show went weird… I don’t know how else to describe it… and the shout-out was never done.  I did get a phone call, though, from Ben, apologizing.  We had a great talk - I am completely sincere when I say that he is my most favorite band member. I may have known Derek longer, but Ben and I *totally* bonded.

Saturday, I went to the “Twilight” DVD release party at Michele’s. Not a huge “Twilight” fan - I read all the books, but didn’t really enjoy them. I totally would have hated the movie, except everyone there had seen it a few times and MST3K’d it.  AWESOME! There were inappropriate pictures taken with the cardboard cut-out of Edward, inappropriate things cut into the rice krispies treats, inappropriate comments about boxes,  and PONY! made an appearance… awesome night.  I wasn’t sure I’d have that much fun, but seriously? My friends NEVER disappoint. I’m very fortunate.

Came home on Sunday and planned a totally lazy day.  Not moving off the couch lazy.  Around 4 PM, my heart started beating irregularly.  It does this from time to time, so I wasn’t too concerned.  When it didn’t settle down, we went to the ER.  My heart didn’t want to calm down at all and fought everything the hospital threw at it.  Eventually, it did get back to normal, but after that, they wanted me to stay for observation.  Whatever it is, it’s minor and they weren’t that concerned.  Both relieved and a little freaked out. 

Thursday, I drove back to CT to see Instrument at the Hungry Tiger.  During the soundcheck, Ben serenaded me with “happy birthday”, but it was the extended remix version where he mispronounced my name in every single way possible. It was cute.  I liked that he remembered… even if I was totally obnoxious about my birthday in the days leading up to it. (Remember, this birthday had to be awesome to reduce the effect of March 18’s massively disturbing milestone.) 

Jersey, Boski and Viz were all there.  Henry the hippie even showed up! I didn’t really get a chance to talk to him, but Viz and I did at least get over there and say “hi”. He’s a cool guy and gives a heck of a massage. I seriously wanted to take him home with me.  He needs to friend me on Facebook (AHEM!) since I forgot to get his last name.

Ben tossed a pick at me and also gave me a real birthday shout-out towards the end of their set.  I felt like the uber-groupie.  Wicked fun for a change since I was starting to feel like one of the boys.  Not that that normally bothers me as a rule, but I *am* more than a friend, a roadie and a photographer. It’s nice when they remember I’m a fan as well.

I ended up taking Jersey up to Storrs after the show so he could get his car.  It was nice to get alone time with him and catch up. It’s been too long. Since I was in Storrs anyway, I spent the night at Derek’s. Before we went our separate ways (he to his room, me to his couch), we also had a really great chat.  That was nice, too. Answered some important questions about certain historical issues such as the “spiderman” incident.  I remember that night just as clearly, but not what started the spiderman thing.  He was so detailed that I knew it was indeed me, but I seriously don’t have a freaking clue about anything else.

I hung around D’s all day Friday since I had nothing better to do until the CD release show at Hot Topic.  While I was there, I got to enjoy solo sets by both Jonah and Aaron as we hung around outside.  Then, I got to watch the band practice their acoustic set.  They were so on yesterday.  Even though they were screwing around during rehearsal, they still nailed it.  I couldn’t wait to get to the mall and see it for real. 

They totally rocked the CD release gig.  I’ve seen them have fun on stage before, but their vibe was just insane.  Like I said, they were tight.  It might have been their best show yet. I just don’t have the words for it.  Nice to run into Derek’s parents again and hang out with Michele, Viz, and Jersey.  (Two nights of Jersey! w00t!)

After the show, we had to feed the Vizma and wound up at PF Chang’s.  Our waiter has become the gold standard against which all other men will forever be judged. (Seriously, boyfriend was HOT.) Good time, good food, good conversation.  I wasn’t going to stay for dinner, but I’m glad I did. 

I’ve got a lazy day today and then, I’m off bright and early to meet up with the boys and head to NYC for their show at Arlene’s Grocery.  I’m excited to go.  I haven’t been to NYC in years - don’t really like the city - but I don’t have to drive, so I’m happy.  I can’t wait to see them play again.  It’s been a good weekend so far for them.  I’m so proud of them.  Like I told D Thursday night, there’s no way I’d be driving from NH to CT as much as I have been for their gigs if I didn’t like their music. They’ve really come a long way.

If you haven’t yet (why not?!?), check them out:   Instrument on MySpace.

Off to grab a quick nap before the BU/Ohio State game.  See ya’ll later!